A date idea for tonight, written for the two of you.

Pick a vibe and a budget. DateWhim writes one specific plan, not a listicle. Free, no sign-up.

Casual, under $30, eveningAI GENERATED

Backwards Dinner Night

Start with dessert at the fanciest place you can find, then work backwards: mains from a food truck, appetizers on a bench with a view.

Under $302-3 hrs

Ideas it actually makes.

Three real outputs of the free casual generator, unedited. Yours are written from your own filters.

Sunrise Coffee Heist

Alarm at 5:30, a thermos of the good coffee, the best east-facing spot in town. Watch the city wake up before anyone else owns the day.

Cost: Free
Time: 1-2 hrs
Filters used: adventurous, free, daytime

The One-Hour Museum Race

Pick a museum, set a timer for one hour, each of you finds the one piece the other absolutely has to see. Loser buys the pastries after.

Cost: Under $30
Time: 2 hrs
Filters used: creative, under $30, daytime

Home Cinema, Director's Cut

One of you picks a film the other has never seen. Homemade tickets, assigned seats on the couch, intermission snacks. Phones in a box at the door.

Cost: Free
Time: 3 hrs
Filters used: cozy, free, evening

Casual is free. The other two are for nights that matter.

CasualFree

Any weeknight, any budget.

Lazy Sunday picnics, film nights with rules, mystery walks. Unlimited, no account needed. Or spin the wheel and let it pick.

Open the casual generator

Spicy Nights

Couple Premium

For turning the heat up.

Bold, adult ideas for two that skip what either of you ruled out. Never shared, never stored unless you save them.

Special Milestones

Couple Premium

Get it right the first time.

Anniversaries, birthdays, the proposal. Built on how you met and what only you two share, not a generic “romantic dinner”.

Couple Premium: $4.99/mo or $39/year, one subscription for both of you. Every idea built on both your tastes, never a repeat. Full pricing

Then it does not evaporate.

Most good date ideas die in a group chat. These three are what happens after the idea.

01
Bucket ListFree
Keep the ones you liked. Free for casual ideas, and you only need an account when you want them on a second device.
02
Date PlannerPremium
Drag a saved idea onto a calendar day. The plan stops living in your head and starts having a date attached to it.
03
Couple ModePremium
Send your partner one link. You both swipe through ideas, a match becomes the plan, and nobody has to be the one who decides. One subscription covers both of you.

“My partner and I kept having the same conversation: what should we do? Followed by nothing. So I built the thing that answers it.”

Gergely, founder of DateWhim

Questions couples ask

What is free and what is premium?

The Casual generator, Spin the Wheel, the Bucket List for casual ideas and your taste profile are free, with no card. Couple Premium builds every idea on both your profiles, never repeats a past idea, and includes Spicy Nights, Special Milestones, the Date Planner and Couple Mode.

Why not just ask a chatbot for date ideas?

A chatbot starts from zero every time and only hears one of you. With Couple Premium, DateWhim remembers the dates you already did, never repeats an idea, learns from your votes, and combines both partners' tastes without either of you seeing the other's answers.

Do we both need an account?

No. One partner subscribes and invites the other with a link. One subscription covers both of you in Couple Mode, the invited partner never pays.

What if my partner will not install another app?

There is no app to install. DateWhim runs in the browser: you send one link, they tap it, done.

Is Spicy Nights content private?

Yes. Generated ideas are not stored on your profile unless you save them, spicy ideas can never be shared publicly, and only a linked partner can see your saved items. No ad targeting, no selling data.

Does my partner see my profile answers?

No. Each of you answers from your own account and DateWhim combines the two. Your story for Milestones (how you met, inside jokes) is only used for ideas you generate yourself, so a surprise stays a surprise.

Can I cancel anytime?

Yes, immediately, from your account. Access lasts until the end of the paid period.