Ideas built on both your profiles, answers stay private
Never repeats a past idea, learns from your votes
Milestones built on your own story
Spicy Nights generator (18+)
Special Milestones generator
Date planner calendar
Couple Mode: shared list and swipe voting
Free is a good date idea, right now.
Casual generator, spin the wheel, a bucket list for casual ideas, and your taste profile. No sign-up needed for the generator.
Premium knows you two.
Both partners answer privately, DateWhim combines the two. It remembers every date you did or skipped, so the next idea is new to you, and Milestones are built on your own story.
Cancel anytime from your account - no email needed
No hidden fees, no price increases, no tricks
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Both partners keep their data if you cancel
Your data stays safe if you cancel - resubscribe to regain access
One subscription covers both partners in Couple Mode
Questions about pricing
What happens if I cancel?+-
You keep premium access until the end of your billing period. After that, you drop back to the free tier - the Casual Generator stays available and your account stays active.
Is this per person or per couple?+-
Per couple. One subscription covers both partners once you link accounts in Couple Mode.
Why pay when I can ask a chatbot for date ideas?+-
A chatbot starts from zero every time and only hears one of you. DateWhim remembers what you two already did, never repeats an idea, learns from your votes, and combines both partners' tastes without either of you seeing the other's answers.
Does my partner see my profile answers?+-
No. Each of you answers from your own account. The generator combines both, but neither partner can read the other's answers. Your story for Milestones is only used for ideas you generate yourself, so surprises stay surprises.
Is there a free trial for premium?+-
Not currently. You can fill in your taste profile for free and try the Casual generator first.